Empowerment

Red Lipstick

‘I was her friend even before I was born.’ This thought raced in my young mind as my mother, and I crept silently to Lily’s mother’s room. The room was huge, with a high ceiling and windows with ledges and ornate
January 25, 2024

Not The Wife Material

It was time for my parents to find a suitable boy for me. It gave me exciting encounters, interesting revelations and a name for my Substack account. This was during a two year period when Udit and I were ‘on a
January 25, 2024

Seattle: From Falling to Fish ‘n’ chips

Whenever I shared my plan to start grad school in Seattle (2016-2018), everyone said, “It is a beautiful city, but it rains”. As far as I was concerned, if it didn’t snow that much, I didn’t mind at all. But only
January 25, 2024

Growing up with Afro Curls

Life in the 1970s and 80s was not easy for a child, school was full of bullies, teachers were yet to be sensitive to child psychology, and parents were not too eager to be concerned about their children’s mental health. It
January 25, 2024

Divorce Stigma

Sometimes I truly wish to be a thing, just a thing, Rather than a human being. No emotions ,no heartache, no tears. This human life is only a misery. I am not from zoo or other planet, Yes I belong to
January 25, 2024

The Three Women in my Life

The Three Women in my Life: Lessons in Courage, Resilience, and Triumph “Sing a song of sixpence, A pocket full of rye, Four and twenty blackbirds Baked in a pie.” Many afternoons after I returned home from school in 2002, I would memorise lines from this wonderful English poem. I was hooked on
January 25, 2024

Exploring the Essence of Nature through Literature

Gerard Manley Hopkins’ “spring and fall” and Robert Frost’s “Design” in Relation to Their Depiction of Nature – A Critical Study The portrayal of nature in literature encompasses a rich tapestry of perspectives and philosophies inherent to human thought. In
October 25, 2023

Loving Minu Tai

…and learning from her. A meditation on love, loss and healing Minu Tai and I were given two vastly different lives to live. I’m not adding a photograph of Minu Tai to this essay — so here’s a description — an agile
October 25, 2023

Sticker and I – A Friendship that Can Never be

“My marriage crumbled. My health crumbled. I crumbled,” writes Sana Ally. A cat she had rejected shows her how to accept it all. Sticker is 3 years, 3 month-ish old. She’s half blind. There’s good reason to believe that vision in her
October 25, 2023

Meeting My Breasts for the First Time

“My breasts are, literally, the softer parts of me. As flaunt-worthy as the more culturally-celebrated stronger parts of me,” asserts writer and Odissi dancer Swaati Chattopadhyay “Swaati, are your breasts in front of your waist?” “No.” “Then keep your hand where your
October 25, 2023
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